Getting Started

COUNSELING FOR INDIVIDUALS AND COUPLES
in the Redlands, Yucaipa, and Inland Empire areas


GET HELP TODAY

Step 1: Call for a free consultation

Contact me prior to making your first appointment for a free 15 minute consultation.

Step 2: Make an appointment

Decide to journey on a new lifepath. "When setting out on a journey, do not seek advice from those who have never left home."

Step 3: Do the work

Reaching your goals takes determination and intentionality. "People with goals succeed because they know where they are going."

Do you ever find yourself asking, how did I get here? How did my life take the direction it has?

Perhaps you experienced some kind of trauma in your past – childhood abuse, a relationship trauma, or those received on the battlefield – and you are wondering why what happened then continues to affect and impact your life now. I am here to tell you that healing is possible. There is hope!

Maybe you’ve been thinking about talking to someone for a while now…. All too often, the crisis point comes when we least expect it.

The internal turmoil we work so hard to keep hidden inside refuses to do so any longer. Like a rubber ball we press down under the water, it eventually slips out of our hands and pops to the surface. Sometimes, we just need someone to help us process it all through.

Or you could be struggling in your marriage.

Your spouse has had an affair or struggles with a porn addiction. The two of you seem unable to communicate effectively or agree on parenting. You have grown apart over the years and lost touch. The truth is that we all struggle at times; the difference now is that you are finally ready to let someone help you. It no longer makes sense to keep doing what has never worked and expect a different result. It would be my honor to help you with some real solutions. I have been married over 40 years myself and have three grown children, and while marriage is not always easy, it is worth the journey.

While you may have been feeling that you simply have nowhere to turn, you really don’t have to walk through it alone.

I have spent well over 20 years working with survivors of trauma, abuse, PTSD, and a variety of other challenges that so many of us face along the way.